Everyone has a core survival pattern.
The key is learning how to break yours and develop new ones.
Hi, I’m a Core Pattern Coach with a Master’s in Education and 16 years of experience as a personal trainer and a competitive bodybuilder. My work blends nervous system science, behavior change, and practical coaching to help women break free from the subconscious core patterns that keep them stuck and create new healthier positive core patterns.
You know the ones:
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Saying yes when you mean no
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Shutting down in conflict
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Overachieving to feel worthy
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Feeling anxious, numb, or never “enough”
These are core survival patterns, automatic ways your nervous system learned to cope early in life. They helped you then. But now? They’re running the show, holding you back from the clarity, confidence, and connection you’re truly craving.
This work helps you:
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Understand where those core survival patterns come from
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Interrupt them in real-time
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Rewire your responses through repeatable, science-backed tools
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Build healthier positive core patterns that reflects who you actually are—not just who you had to be
With my background in education and physical training, I bring structure, accountability, and deep emotional insight to the work.
Think of it as strength training for your inner world.
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You’re not broken. You’ve just been surviving.
It’s time to lead your life—not live on autopilot.
Let’s break these survival pattern together - I’ve got you!
My Journey
This post may come as a shock to many, resonate with a few, may disgust some or maybe you already knew. This will be the most difficult ‘click’ I will ever make in social media. Maybe it will be my first of many. I have a lot to share.
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As a personal trainer, I never wanted to disappoint my tribe (clients) but they all needed to hear it from me. It’s safe now to share because my people, my friends all now know. I bared my soul.
I was a hidden and isolated alcoholic.
The reactions I received were out of love and curiosity.
It’s now time to share my journey. I chuckle as I write that… “SHIT, it has been more than a journey.” It’s a continuous MF journey. I am here today and tomorrow I will be one step further. Oh, there have been times I have stood still, stepped off the journey. But what I can say is I got back on and I can clearly say I have arrived at a place of clarity and awareness.
I am sharing this all because it is my hope my story will help someone. I know it will. A common theme I have heard throughout all my years of training people from all walks of life, as well as the many empowerment groups I’ve organized is that so many of us do not feel seen or heard. “Is this what life is really all about?” My hope is that you or someone close will follow and begin to see life through a different lens. To know they are not alone.
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The last three years I have felt a tsunami on my back and a black pit in my chest. That tsunami almost took me down and the black pit was my soul. I was silently dying. I was killing myself and I had no understanding how to live differently. I am forever grateful I had a wake up call in August of 2023 - I was malnourished emotionally, mentally and spiritually. I was debilitated. On 9/11/2023 I admitted myself into an outpatient program where I began to heal. I told very few. My children, a few family members, a few clients and my coach.
As I share this I am
healing myself...
from all the shame, guilt, and self hatred I had for myself.
I am me. I am an open book. I am vulnerable. I am a lover of people. I will always be honest no matter how touchy the subject. My crazy, my messes can be someone else’s message.
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And RebuildFromWithin was created.
My desire to help others, to elevate them to a higher self, to bring awareness to personality patterns, protectors and self limiting beliefs that most likely have been running your “life script.” It is time to step back and view your life through your current lens - is this how you want to feel, look and show up for yourself, your relationships and/or work? If you hear the whisper “No, I wish for more.” “I wish to feel better about myself.” “I wish, I wish, I wish or I desire to feel happy, strong, confident, and excited about myself and my future than RebuildFromWithin with me, Tara is for you.”
RebuildFromWithin is not about addiction or recovery but in a way it is. Alcohol was my protector, my numbing agent, what is yours? Let me join you on your journey of self awareness, self acceptance, self love and most importantly stepping into your POWER and your new script in life.
Real Stories. Real Transformation.
The best way to understand Core Pattern Coaching is to hear from the people who’ve experienced it. These clients came to me looking for change and what they discovered was more confidence, more grounding, and a deeper sense of self they could carry into every part of life.
Watch their stories below.
“I feel more rooted and
grounded than I’ve
ever been.”
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“What I’ve gained from
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it feels like so much more.”
Now it’s your turn.
You’ve heard how Core Pattern Coaching has changed lives—helping women feel more grounded, confident, and free in who they are.
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For a limited time, I’m offering free 1:1 sessions for new clients.
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This is your chance to experience it for yourself. We’ll uncover the patterns holding you back, give your nervous system a new way to respond, and leave you with practical tools you can use right away.
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Try it. Feel it. See the difference for yourself.